Just Married !

I'm officially his WIFE now.

Can't believe im out of single life already

The life i ever wanted since few years ago.

I'm a girl that really enjoy being around with my loves one

I would say, i love cooking , i enjoy making my love one happy ,

i enjoy his companion , i enjoy spending ALL my times with him .

I even enjoy hearing my loves one snoring beside me.

LOL ......

I love Married life.

But it's not granted before in my past relationship...

Here,im married to this man i truly love.quite happy.

I wish everything going on smoothly....

Just married cert.



It's a big thing when it comes to married.

If u're rich,then it's not a big deal .... but when its not , then u really have

to know how to handle if problems occur.

We're quite lucky cos my parents wouldn't rush us anything

on our wedding. My mom was waiting patiently for everything

under our preparation . Although i did quarrel with her over some issue,

but she did understand and follow my wills .

Sorry mother . it's not that i don't want to make it as perfect as u want it to be,

But i really want u to know, im happily married nw.

It doesn't mean that money brings everything,it doesn't mean that

it bring happiness .

Let me tell u a fact about money and rich.

( read only . if you don't agree,just let it be )

I always feel tht money always bring unhappiness.

Even rich ppl will feel not enough money n always sick of finding

more n more money.They r not happy neither .

Even their wifes would worried sick if their husband was rich enough

to pay for some chicks around.

Money will only bring happiness when u felt u're actually lucky enough

to be able to eat a plate of economy rice, a plate of chicken burger set

instead of double cheese chicken burger set , a plate of light sandwich

instead of mumble-jumbo huge sandwich which costs u few more bucks!

I don't feel that sitting over Starbucks everyday with my laptop

make me feel im rich enough to pay a cup of RM14+ coffee everyday.

Instead,i felt im sitting there was to enjoy my life when i'm really stress up!

People would always says "Married rich man,Married rich man" but

does other ppl understand wht a girl feels when she is marrying a man for

money? I gurantee that,

1. No Freedom

*due to facey problem-u cant linger with some poor dudes or else,

when ur mother / father in law frens saw u, u're doom for making them lose face

2. No Cares from husband

*ur husband will only keep on finding money,even when

u're sick,ur husband will say "u take k urself,go ask driver bring u to doctor,im busy with

some meetings later on"

3. Lack of security

*womans especially,will worry if their husband have extra money

for some younger chicks around. some bossy would always travel China for business

4. Lack of companion

*business business all the times , who would company womans?

husband would only give moneys,cards,cars for woman to enjoy . do u think woman

don't feel lonely ?

5. Lack of trust

*well ... this one i guess every rich woman MUST trust their husband

MONEY instead of trusting their husband is Loyal enough to them.. maybe in the

world there was once a man who really Rich + Loyal to a woman . i doesn't mean

all rich man r tht disloyal , but , once in a blue moon - fucking around does exists ok?

6. Family communication lesser with daddy

*don't u feel pity when ur son ask u "where's daddy?can i talk phone with daddy?

i miss daddy..i make a drawing for daddy n hope he can see it..." and what u can do

as a mommy ? im sure u would answer " daddy will be back soon . daddy is

busy meetings now " . while ur kids was waiting over the front door holding

the nice drawing , or silently by the window for his daddy to come home .

7. Lack of funs

*u're husband wont play with u cos he's too tired for business. Maybe he'll

spend the weekend at home resting, while U love family weekends.

So, u're the only mother n father who brings ur kids around the beach,

and being pick n drop by the driver. (although not all husband is like tht)

8. Lack of sexual desire / sexual activities

*well, some man does take sex to release stress, but not all . some had decrease

in sexual desire when he felt too stress in work.usually,businessman wouldn't

share much about business with their woman because all they want was a woman

that could take k the house n family,and not taking k of his business. Some man even

found out that their family was a stress to them when it comes to "i need to find more

money to give my family a happy life" .. and it ends up,going out, karaoke-ing,hugging,

kissing,sexing,bla bla bla ..... its normal ok? - just to release their stress n burden.

9. Lack of self-control

*woman will use more money when their man doesn't around. cos tht what the man

says "im outstation for few weeks,i drop by the money for u to spend,if finish,

use the cards i provided.buy some nice clothes for urself n kids,bring them to dinner"

So what can woman do? Spending!

10. Self-emotion
*all woman have an emotion that would comes up n down like mood swing sometimes.

especially when they feel they need their husband to talk , to share , but their husband not around,busy with work or so .... Or when woman feel low during taking k of sick kids .

They will feel not happy but could recover themself up if they r tough enough.

11. More responsibility

*i bet woman who married rich man have more responsibility.not only to their kids as

they were like mom n dad to them , also to their mother/father in law. They have

to be the best daughter in law to them,some rich ppl which needs a "BEST in law"

makes the daughter like servant . Eventhou they have servant already,as wife,still need

to take k of the cloths,the foods,the caress to the old folks once in a while.

12. Be in style

*don't try to wear a mini skirt go out with ur frens n hang around the bar!

i'm sure your mother in law would nag at u for losing their face! instead,u have to

wear a nice dress or a nice suite for any events. i guess,even go market

also need to wear properly or else,ppl would says tht rich wife wear so lousy

to the market =(

I did date my rich ex before,so thts a bit though from his mom as well.

I haven't married in , also like that already . and what if i married in?

LOL .................

Anyway. Share finish !

* Qi-Er *